Dress code

• what does “black tie attire mean”

Black tie calls for elevated evening wear — think tuxedos, formal black suits, and floor-length gowns. This is your moment to dress to the nines. Please be sure to wear all black, men can wear black or white formal shirts, we ask that there be no pops-of-color.

• Are specific colors required for the dress code?

Yes — all black everything. Guests are kindly asked to wear all-black attire for a sleek, unified look that matches the tone of the evening.

CHILDREN

• are children allowed at the wedding?

While we love your little ones, this celebration is adults-only. Please note that any plus-one must also be of legal drinking age.

IMPORTANT DETAILS

• TYPICAL WEATHER

Late October in Durham typically brings crisp, comfortable fall weather. Daytime highs hover around 70°F (21°C), while evenings and early mornings can dip to around 47°F (8°C). You can expect mostly clear to partly cloudy skies, with a good mix of sunshine and the occasional overcast moment. Rain isn’t too common, but there’s about a 20–25% chance of a shower on any given day, so it’s good to be prepared. Winds are usually calm and mild, making for a pleasant outdoor experience overall.

WHAT TO BRING:

  1. Comfortable layers—think tees, light long sleeves, jeans

  2. A light jacket or sweater for cool evenings

  3. A light umbrella or waterproof shell (just in case of a brief shower)

  4. Sunglasses and sunscreen for the sunny daytime hours

• RSVP DEADLINE

Please RSVP by August 25, 2025 so we can finalize all the details. RSVPs received after this date will be counted as not attending, so be sure to respond on time—we’d really love to celebrate with you!

FOOD OPTIONS

• Do you accommodate dietary restrictions?

Yes, we’re committed to ensuring that all our guests have a delightful dining experience. Please indicate your dietary restrictions and allergies in your RSVP, and we’ll make sure you’re catered to accordingly.

• Can we request specific dishes for dietary restrictions?

While we’ll have a variety of dishes to accommodate different dietary needs, if you have specific requests or severe allergies, please let us know in advance, and we’ll do our best to accommodate them.